Seeing that the end of the year is coming again, I believe many parents are busy paying for the renewal of their children’s various early education classes, and they are embarrassed to say that they have children unless they report to two or three extracurricular classes.

　　Teach children to read a lot of picture books in advance; Teach children pinyin, literacy, English and arithmetic in advance, and regard learning knowledge as early education … … Nowadays, many parents don’t really understand the purpose of early education, thinking that early education is to develop children’s intelligence, that is, to teach children to do things in primary schools, even middle schools and even universities in advance. This concept is wrong.

　　Developing intelligence is important for children’s development, but the key factor that determines how far a child can go in society in the future is his character. It is more important for children to participate in future social life with a healthy attitude, cheerful mood and cooperative spirit, and to have certain practical ability and good language expression than excellent grades.

　　We can’t just pay attention to what children learn today, but think about whether these things taught today will affect children’s lives in 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, 50 years or even 70 years. Therefore, in line with the purpose of lifelong sustainable development, preschool education should make more efforts to cultivate personality quality. Have you "unlocked" the following 8 skills for your baby?

　　First, develop basic viability

　　Survival ability includes 12 aspects: eating, drinking, pulling, scattering, sleeping, wearing, combing, wearing, wiping, hygiene, working and tidying, all of which are indispensable. In life, some children just lack this basic survival ability.

　　When I was working in the experimental primary school of Beijing Normal University, I encountered such a situation. Some parents asked, "Principal, what’s the matter? The water that the child brought in the morning has not been drunk until now. Don’t you teach children to drink water in your primary school? "

　　Parents, didn’t your children learn to drink water until they were 6 years old? Later, I found through observation that children can’t drink water because their parents didn’t teach them right. When does a person need to drink water and drink when he is thirsty? Wrong. Drink only when you are thirsty, eat only when you are hungry, excrete only when you are suffocated, rest only when you are tired, sleep only when you are sleepy, lose weight only when you are fat, and go to see a doctor when you are sick. In these seven States, your body is overdrawn and your cells have been damaged. Therefore, parents must teach their children to replenish water in time. If the children are not taught to drink water actively in the kindergarten class, the teacher will not organize the children to drink water in a unified way until they go to primary school.

　　Take "wipe" as an example. "Wipe" means to wipe the fragrance. In winter and spring, especially in the north, the skin must be covered with something protective, otherwise it will chapped when the wind blows. Therefore, we must teach our children to do their own protection.

　　Second, form good living habits

　　Once a habit is formed, it is very difficult to change it. A large number of psychological studies tell us that a child’s living habits in kindergarten will definitely migrate to his study habits after he goes to school. That is to say, if his living habits are in a mess in kindergarten, don’t expect his study habits to be good in the future.

　　Habits accompany children all their lives, and good habits are inexhaustible wealth for children all their lives; Bad habits are debts that children can’t pay off all their lives.

　　Tagore once said, sowing habits, harvesting life; Li Ka-shing said, sowing habits make a career. Be sure to help your child develop good living habits before he is 6 years old.

　　3. Build self-esteem and confidence.

　　American psychologist Erickson’s research on social psychology tells us that there are a pair of contradictions in every different period of human life. At the age of 4 to 6, when the child is in kindergarten, this contradiction is a contradiction between initiative and guilt.

　　If the child develops well in all aspects, he will actively and actively participate in activities; If he doesn’t develop well, he will feel guilty and retreat, and he is an evasive attitude towards everything. How to stimulate children’s initiative during this critical period?

　　The method is actually very simple, that is, during this period, parents and teachers should give their children more encouragement.

　　A confident child has pride and self-esteem, and does not need to whip himself. If parents don’t have to take care of some things, he will take the initiative to do it. Such a child will be self-reliant, and a self-reliant child will be self-reliant in the future.

　　A confident child will encounter more setbacks and difficulties in his life in the future. He is strong inside, he has a sense of happiness and a quality life. A child without self-confidence has no strength, no matter how much property his parents leave him. He is too weak inside and his life has no quality.

　　Learn to cooperate and live in harmony with others.

　　Now many parents are only children. Two only children together, and gave birth to an only child. Children have no companions to get along with at home, and without this kind of experience transfer, they will lack a lot of things. Learning how to get along with peers is a very important reason for sending children to kindergarten. In kindergarten, children gradually learn to live in a collective life and get along with others.

　　When Xixi in our family went to kindergarten, there was no tissue paper. Everyone used handkerchiefs, but we let our children take that kind of rolled toilet paper to school every day.

　　We will tell her that when a child needs it, you can give it to him or help him use it, so we will be very happy. Which child has a runny nose or is sweating, which child is crying or bleeding, just take some paper and wipe it for him.

　　Especially when a child is crying, all you have to do is wipe his tears with paper, then hug him, pat him on the back and whisper in his ear: I know you are very upset now, I can understand, shall we work something out together?

　　This is what I taught my child. I have done it since I was a child. She joined the kindergarten halfway, but later, she can make many good friends. Therefore, there are some things that we have to teach our children.

　　Cultivate correct values.

　　For the sake of children’s lifelong sustainable development, we should help children cultivate universal values. It is to let the child recognize as much as possible, and let his values be similar to those of others, so that he can be accepted by others.

　　Parents may not pay attention to this problem. Some children are lonely, have no playmates and are marginalized by their peers. In many cases, their values are different from others.

　　Lu cultivates positive feelings of loving artistic beauty in life.

　　Let children know that the love of beauty is a realm. Although the child can’t see the flowers or beautiful hairpin on her head, she has a beautiful hairpin in her heart. From the perspective of mental health, such a child will never get depression, because she has a sense of happiness in her heart. It is a kind of realm for women to please themselves and create a good-looking atmosphere for others.

　　From the point of view of mental health, a person knows how to spend some time for himself every day, which shows that he is not mean and tolerant of himself. He understands the taste of life and has an emotional appeal, which is cultivated from an early age.

　　We often see that some people are very good-looking, but lack temperament, which can not be compensated by having money to buy various decorations to wear on their bodies. And some people are plain-looking, but outstanding in temperament, and we can feel the taste and quality of life from him.

　　In addition to leading children to pursue visual beauty, they should also be encouraged to pursue auditory enjoyment and know how to appreciate beautiful melodies and melodious rhythms. Creating beauty while experiencing beauty, starting from an early age, his future life will be tasteful and quality, and he will live in a mood and artistic conception every day.

　　It is difficult to cultivate a person’s aesthetics. As parents, we should work hard and actively to help children cultivate.

　　Cultivate sports interest

　　Let children learn simple health knowledge, teach them how to pay attention to their own health and strengthen physical exercise. A healthy body will benefit children all their lives.

　　Develop cognitive ability

　　Cognition includes stimulating children’s curiosity and willingness to learn, enriching individual creativity and imagination, and cultivating the ability to find and solve problems.

　　Five areas to promote children’s development are put forward in the Guiding Outline of Kindergarten Education: health, language, society, science and art. Kindergartens that truly meet the national standards must carry out education and teaching activities along these five fields.

　　Early education should be based on the long-term and avoid quick success and instant benefit. As stated in the "Guidelines for Kindergarten Education", the combination of conservation and education promotes the development of children’s sensory and motor abilities, and forms and develops language; Develop good living habits, cultivate learning interest and good learning quality, understand social rules, and promote healthy development of body and personality. (Text/Qian Zhiliang Illustration of Beijing Normal University/In)

1905 movie network news On June 1st, the film released the "Special Edition of Great Actors", which showed the acting skills and professionalism of six sisters. Self-report "Zhang Lijun in the play is quite different from my personality", and Yin Tao, who has always been gentle and peaceful, is very nervous because of her inexperience in the process of patting the new actor. In order to prevent accidental injury to the other side, Yin Tao repeatedly confirmed the details, and strived with the director to change the kicking action into pushing by hand, and calmed the little actor before shooting, striving for a pass, which was both professional and warm-hearted.

Lin Qing, the eldest sister who plays "Sunshine Sisters", described herself as a "girl with a little boy character" in the interview, and the director commented that she was "an actress with a little heroic spirit, and she was very suitable for this role". Ceng Li thinks that Lin Qing "is willing to be independent in many things" and can play such a dashing and domineering role. Ceng Li said that "it meets my desire for many years".

There is a scene that needs to dress up as ugly and injured makeup. At first, she hesitated, worried that if the image collapsed, "how can I pick up other scenes in the future?" Finally, she appeared in the shape of Qing Wu eyes and messy hair, without idol burden. It plays Yangmei, who was addicted to literature and later became a housewife. Masu said, "I found a sense of inferiority in her." When she opened the door with her child in her arms and saw her former best sister, her expression was very lonely and embarrassed.

"I really can’t swallow it," he said with tears after shooting a lot of pancakes. This scene requires her to munch on pancake fruit while crying about her tragic experience with her long-lost sister. Ni Hongjie’s crying scene was touching, and the original lines in the tidbits were hoarse and very tearful.

Zhu Zhu, who plays the funny role among the sisters, keeps Zhu Zhu milk tea in the movie and eats snacks in almost every scene. "There is a fat man in that movie that belongs to me". For the role of Zhu Zhu, Jiang Xiaohan gained nearly 40 pounds, and put on a thick and sultry foam fattening suit when shooting.

It is reported that "Sunny Sisters Amoy" is starring Yin Tao, Ceng Li, Zhang Xinyi, Masu, Ni Hongjie and Jiang Xiaohan. This is a comedy that will make people cry. The "Sunshine Sisters" in high school were naive and lively, with frequent jokes. After 23 years, the "Sunshine Sisters" reunited and found that everyone had encountered different survival difficulties, and they regained their sisterhood in adversity, which was very sad and tearful. The film will be released nationwide on June 11th. From June 3 rd to June 6 th, the film "Sunshine Sisters Amoy" will start the second round of advance screening and meet more audiences.

Special feature of 1905 film network The romantic films in this year’s Lunar New Year file have brought two completely different painting styles.

If it is a cup of milk tea, it is sweet and delicious, and I have seen a romantic and beautiful love story in youth. Then it’s an old glass of wine, full of fragrance and mellow. See how a pair of men and women who have experienced Qian Fan can taste life and experience true love.

As a former trendsetter and the pioneer of the New Year movie, the director returned to the New Year file with his work "If You Are the One 3" after four years. Whether it is the painting style of dopamine or the story of AI robot, the audience is worried about whether the quality of the film can be as good as ever.

However, some netizens commented: "If You Are the One 3 is completely worth the fare, and it is very rare to laugh and cry!" As a sequel, Xiaogang Feng continued the story structure of the first two films, and returned to the shooting location 15 years ago, and continued to write the current story. It can be seen that the director wants to draw a happy ending to this series.

Dopamine is a lively loneliness.

In If You Are the One 3, 65-year-old Xiaogang Feng brought the audience gorgeous colors like youth. Bright blue, green, red, yellow and purple are interlaced, which is the most popular dopamine color scheme at present. The dreamlike colors make people walk into fairy tales, but behind the splendor, there is a lively loneliness.

The painting style of dopamine in "If You Are the One 3" reminds many viewers of this year’s hot. However, Barbie is a very clear feminist film, so its pink picture style will not cause controversy, but it will also trigger a wave of wear and tear. However, "If You Are the One 3" is positioned as a comedy with a happy family, and there will be many male audiences. The painting style of dopamine will make this audience feel too sweet.

However, the image style of dopamine color matching in this film is actually in line with the narrative content, and the two are mutually compatible. Director Xiaogang Feng said at the film conference that he chose this color scheme by referring to the painting of American painter edward hopper, because what he saw from this painting was not that gorgeous and lively, but actually a sense of loneliness inside the characters.

In the narrative space of the film, Roi is actually a lonely character who is eager to accompany him. Colorful characters are actually not lively, but also a lonely state of people.

Director Xiaogang Feng also said in an interview that with the growth of age, the preference for color became stronger and stronger. The director who has entered the twilight of his life, after the vicissitudes of life, loves simple and pure things most, and the taste of life among them can’t help feeling.

Reflections on love and marriage

There is also a very big controversy in this film, that is, a portrayal of female roles. In "If You Are the One 3", tell a story from a male perspective and shape women into a very obedient robot, that is, a work that objectifies women and men stare?

The setting of "two women fighting for a man" in this film is actually a portrait of a character with two sides. By setting a true and false smile, it represents the difference between the ideal lover and the real lover, and also presents the author’s concept of marriage.

Robot smile is an image that can satisfy the imagination of ideal lover in men’s hearts. It is very gentle, will not get angry, and will accompany and take care of it for a long time. But the real smile is a very personal and rebellious image. However, this real smile may conflict with the needs of men in life.

Therefore, a true lover is not so "practical" in life, but if you really only look at the "practical" side of a woman, she will lack her personality and the motivation for you to really love her.

Through the role of Roi, the leading actor, we can also feel the director’s views on outlook on life, love and marriage: believe in fate, love and marriage, as long as people who love are willing to wait for ten years.

Therefore, after watching the whole film, you will find that the meaning of love that this film wants to emphasize is the more essential and simple kind of heart-to-heart pity and mutual ties after retreating from the shell of romance.

In If You Are the One 3, director Xiaogang Feng told a deep love story, and Roi and Liang Xiaoxiao also gave the audience a happy farewell. As for the meaning of love, I hope the audience can walk into the cinema to experience and feel!

　　On December 27th, Xiaohongshu Beauty released "2023 Beauty Inspiration Inventory". Emotional "crazy" explosion, online beauty and mutual assistance, "lazy" copying homework, and beautiful long-term persistence have become the four major beauty trends of Xiaohongshu this year.

　　This year, the number of little red book skin care notes increased by nearly 90% year-on-year, and the number of beauty notes increased by nearly 70% year-on-year. The strong user base and high-quality content precipitation have made Xiaohongshu a target of beauty trend. Behind the four major trends, Xiao Hongshu’s consistent friendly and mutual assistance and sincere sharing of community genes, as well as the increasingly subdivided and differentiated "planting grass" strategy, are reflected.

　　The knowledge of beauty is vast, but the little red book provides you with a one-click copy of the beauty method. This year, on the little red book, countless users pressed the acceleration button for the road to beauty by "copying homework lazily". After the hot trends such as "early C and late A", the skin care formula of "early B and late A, early P and late R" jointly initiated by @ Harvard Yige -Dr. Jeff and @ Wang Wang Ai Skin Care Department of Chemistry provided a gentler and more accurate new skin care solution for users with acne muscles and sensitive muscles. The annual release of related notes exceeds 1.1 million, and the exposure exceeds 14 billion.

　　It is no longer difficult for ten thousand people to transform and help each other and become beautiful. In the past year, "online beauty and mutual help" has become one of the hottest beauty care trends in Little Red Books. Whether it’s Fiona Fang’s face or long face, light face or thick face, as long as you send out a note of persuasion and transformation, users on Little Red Book will always patiently guide online to help everyone discover their new possibilities. In 2023, the number of notes related to # Listening to Advice and Changing Makeup increased by over 370% year on year, and the exposure increased by over 500% year on year. In addition, more and more college students are brave in the beauty circle and actively express that Xiaohongshu has taken the first step to become a blogger. Eight-day makeup and college students’ wearing have become hot topics, and the number of beauty writers of the student party has increased by over 170% year-on-year.

　　In Little Red Book, in the past year, hundreds of bloggers actively participated in the offline teaching & makeup modification activity initiated by Little Red Book Beauty, and spontaneously provided suggestions and inspiration for netizens to improve their beauty and help them find more styles that suit them. Their participation just shows the community atmosphere of online beauty and mutual assistance in Little Red Book.

　　Return to rational consumption and explore more cost-effective beauty-changing schemes. In 2023, users of Little Red Book will pursue "beautiful long-term". In the field of skin care, people are pursuing more accurate efficacy value, and Light medical cosmetology has gradually become an important part of advanced skin care for skin care professionals. The annual release of related notes exceeds 550,000, and the exposure is as high as 6 billion. When purchasing beauty care products, more and more users began to pay attention to the long-term value of products, and the concept of "expensive replacement" quietly became popular. The annual release of related notes exceeded 15,000, and the exposure exceeded 200 million.

　　In the process of beauty and skin care, there is also an "emotional" madness ". This year, in the use of beauty and skin care, in addition to external changes, people also feel extra pleasant experience and emotional value. The "Relaxation Skin Care" initiated by @ Yi Nengjing promoted the ritual skin care craze, and the release of notes increased by 110% year-on-year. The pursuit of individuality and the use of makeup to create "identity" have become the "daily makeup" of users of little red books, with more than 700,000 notes published and 17 billion exposures.

　　In Xiaohongshu, beauty is not exclusive to bloggers. Everyone can express "beauty" boldly and confidently, and be seen, replied and interacted by others. Sincerely share and help each other’s community genes, life-oriented and scene-based operation methods, so that users of Little Red Book are willing to share their experiences of beauty improvement and strive to explore ideas of beauty improvement. "Good-looking", "Politely asking the price" and "squatting for follow-up" … The sharing and comments of boasting heroes and grass lovers have gathered into a diversified, rich and human-oriented beauty trend content, and every expression of beauty has echoes here.

　　This year, Xiaohongshu also saw a lot of beautiful bloggers who sincerely shared. @ 京京京京京, @ 京京 CHARR and others were awarded the "annual official activity help group" and actively participated in online and offline makeup changes in the official interaction initiated by Beauty Potato in 2023; @ Love durian, @ Anqi and others were awarded the "annual strength blogger help group", with an annual increase of over 200,000 in the field of beauty and skin care; @ cc, who loves spicy food, and Aunt Yao, who studies makeup, were awarded the "New Blogger Help Group of the Year", with an annual increase of over 100,000, and the notes on creating beauty and skin care accounted for 60% or more of the total annual notes.

　　Behind the beauty trend is people’s understanding and exploration of beauty. In Little Red Book, people find beauty in daily life, show beauty in life, and are sincere, human and have real experiences. Every sharing and discussion in Little Red Book reflects users’ positive attitude towards life.

　　From early C to late A to early P to late R, from cut-off eye makeup to e-person travel makeup, the latest fashion and the hottest beauty trend all grow up in Xiaohongshu. Bloggers explore innovative ways of playing, users actively plant grass to learn, and officials maintain the community ecology … Little Red Book has always reached new heights with thousands of users. In December 2023, Xiaohongshu Beauty also launched the 2023 Red Makeup Award, inviting users to recall the moment of "beauty". By reviewing the annual makeup, perfume and skin care experience in the past year, we can discover and create a steady stream of beauty care inspiration.

Unconsciously

The eight-day Spring Festival holiday is coming to an end.

While enjoying the holiday life

Don’t forget.

February 18th is a working day.

According to the general office of the State Council.

Notice on Some Holiday Arrangements in 2024

The Spring Festival is on holiday from February 10th to 17th.

A total of 8 days

February 18th (Sunday)

Going to work!

That is to say, after the eight-day holiday,

I have to work for six days.

Friends who usually set the working day alarm clock.

Don’t forget to set the alarm clock.

In case of being late

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　　From December 2 nd to December 16 th, the 6th CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championships started passionately in Yushan County. 496 players from 41 countries and regions around the world gathered in Yushan and staged a wonderful and fierce peak matchup.

　　The total prize money of this competition reached 10.43 million yuan, including 3 million for the men’s team and 1 million for the women’s team. Numerous award-winning places and generous competition bonuses have attracted the world’s top billiards players to compete, which is not only a wonderful guarantee for the competition, but also a strong impetus for the sustainable development of Chinese billiards.

　　"My goal in this competition is to enter the quarter-finals. Although it is very difficult, I will go all out!" Russian player Lutzke began to learn American billiards at the age of ten, but now he has a strong interest in Chinese billiards. He has participated in the Chinese billiards World Championships for three consecutive years. "I like Chinese billiards and prefer Yushan, a small and beautiful city."

　　As a billiards project with independent intellectual property rights in China, Chinese billiards became popular in China as soon as it came out in the 1980s, and became a widespread sport in China. In 2015, China Billiards Association initiated the CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship and held it for five consecutive times in Yushan. This billiards game invented by China people has been gradually accepted by billiards players and fans all over the world. The rules and skills of Chinese billiards have been spread around the world, and more and more countries and regions have begun to incorporate it into their own billiards system. Chinese billiards has become an important part of the world billiards game.

　　In recent years, Yushan has made every effort to build a county-level sports brand featuring billiards, successfully hosted the 5th Chinese Billiards World Championships, the 4th Chinese Billiards World Open and the Chinese Billiards International Professional League, implemented three major industrial projects, namely "International Billiards Cultural City, Star Billiards Industrial Park and Top Billiards Tournament", and gradually stepped out of the road of high-quality development of county-level sports, from resources to products, from products to events, from events to culture and from culture to brands.